make you own pro lip balm via besottod blog

Today was a good day, nothing special happened that I can pin point, it was just all around good (even the 5:00 a.m. wake up call wasn’t half bad).  One of the highlights of this day was making lip balm with Michelle for last minute gifts. I told her once we got started that it might inspire her to open up a lip balm factory because the process is kind of magical; you start with some waxes and oils, melt, pour and viola you have an apothecary worthy lip balm! It’s in a word-awesome.

I have been making my own products for many, many moons. I was at one time a pretty famous indie perfumer, can you even believe that? I can’t. Like I said that was many moons ago, things have changed and my brain is foggier than it was back then, so I needed a refresher course. Thank goodness an angry chicken was available for assistance. What the what?  I know, people don’t read blogs anymore, but in the olden days they did and Amy Karol was the shizzle, she still is and her ‘handle’ was Angry Chicken and she created an online class where I refreshed my brain and learned some new tricks on how to make some pretty impressive (and of course magical) lip balm. We dubbed ours ‘Wonder Mint’ because it is both a wonder and of course mint, but you can call yours anything your little heart desires (Michelle whipped up a download for you if you wanted to use our label).I know you are going to want to learn this skill too, especially if you have a deep, dark lip balm addiction (like myself) or are in need for a quick, DIY that doesn’t feel like a DIY, do you know what I mean? You can sign-up and take Amy’s class here at your own leisure, you can learn more than lip balm skills, but if you are short on time you can watch just the lip balm video. Have fun and let us know if you take the class!

photo by michelle p.

P.S. In the class Amy will go over supplies, we have linked to some supplies below just to make it easier for you.


Handmade Apothecary Class (online)

Lip Balm Tubes (smaller quantities)

Carrier Oil sample pack


Mint essential oil

Candellia Wax (vegan)

Beeswax pellets

Lip Balm Making Kit (with all the supplies, for those that want it easy + fast)

Wonder Mint lip balm label download

Amazon Prime (because it’s awesome + life changing)

Author / Miss Tristan B

Miss Tristan B. is the proprietress of Besotted Brand and one of the writer’s of this delightful blog. She lives in sunny Seattle with her handsome husband, wonderful baby girl and two pups. Her lofty goal here is to make this a creative resource repository and to inspire you to fall truly, madly, deeply in love with your life.


painted kraft i boxes via besotted blog

Ah, the last minute rush is on to purchase, pack and put your parcels beneath the tree or send off in the Post! I am unfortunately wrapping paper challenged, seriously, I have absolutely no aptitude for wrapping with paper, it’s downright dangerous for this paper cut inclined lady, so when Michelle mentioned she was painting her gift boxes I was duly intrigued.Of course, it’s de rigeur for a blogger to document ones DIY and this is no exception. It passes our criteria that it be easy and look aces. Michelle chose to use two colors a white and a hand mixed perfect pale blush (her fave). There is no real ‘painting’ rules here, even if you can’t paint (which I think is preferable to achieve that naive look that is oh, so popular right now). Just interpret a classic pattern like a stripe or polka dot onto your kraft boxes using acrylic paints and a brush, Michelle said that dry time was not long at all (maybe 15 minutes) which makes this craft good for the impatiently inclined as well. This could even work with the kiddo’s if you give a little guidance. My girl is a little too young to try this without eating the paintbrush but maybe next year!

painted kraft box DIY via besotted


Kraft boxes

Acrylic paint

Paint brushes

Blush paint color recipe: per Michelle, ‘a lot of titanium white and a ‘kiss‘ of cadmium red’.

Glitter tape


photos by michelle p.



fortune favors the brave by a little left field

There’s so many reasons to be grateful on a daily basis, but sometimes when we are stuck in the mire of life, the everyday and trivial can become a distorted reality, especially during the holidays. You bemoan going to the mall, because there might be traffic, or worse you won’t be able to find parking and then there’s crowds and lines and it’s all so overwhelming–or is it?  I have been feeling an overwhelming gratefulness right now for my health, I had a major set back with my back. It had to do with the nerves, it effected my mobility and the pain was Richter scale intense. The worse part was I couldn’t even pick up and hold my baby. It has been nearly 4 weeks and although the pain is still present we have found out it’s not permanent nerve damage which is a huge relief.  You see, you never seem to really realize how lucky you are, how blessed and rich with opportunities until something as ‘given’ as your health has been put in a precarious position. I was feeling pretty low and yes, sorry for myself when I got an email from Heather Von St. James after that I pretty much whipped my brain back into fighting shape even though my body has not quite followed suit. 9 years ago at Christmas, Heather was a new mom, in the blissful (and delirious) new mom state when her health started to rapidly deteriorate. After a battery of tests she was diagnosed with Pleural mesothelioma cancer,  6 months to live, (spoiler alert) it’s 9 years later and well I did receive an email from Heather, perfect timing to knock some gratitude straight through my being. I loved reading Heather’s story, because it’s one of straight up determination and blindly strong conviction, it’s what we all need to possess in our lives, a will to live life to the fullest, not some half-assery existence. We deserve it, we owe it to ourselves and the people we love to be the happiest, healthiest, most grateful we can be. It’s one life folks, let’s not waste it.

Thank you Heather, I am thrilled you emailed and shared your story, I hope it effects millions of other individuals in the positive and profound way it has effected me. You are one brave mama, may you continue to be healthy, happy and wise. Please watch her video and share it with people, this is how we can contribute to helping find a cure and perhaps make someone realize how truly amazing their life is, right now.

print by a little left field design

Author / Miss Tristan B

Miss Tristan B. is the proprietress of Besotted Brand and one of the writer’s of this delightful blog. She lives in sunny Seattle with her handsome husband, wonderful baby girl and two pups. Her lofty goal here is to make this a creative resource repository and to inspire you to fall truly, madly, deeply in love with your life.


foodie gift guide besotted blog

So much to say, there’s a reason that it’s been sporadic here, I despise being ‘one of those‘ bloggers that apologizes all the time for their absence, it seems so trite. In my defense I do have a reason, so much to say about it and I will be expounding on it later but now is not the time. Michelle though has graciously continued her perfect gift guide search whilst her partner has been in the abyss. Today we are doing the Foodie gift guide!  I am not a foodie as much as I am a food enthusiast, I think this gift guide will be equally as helpful for both as I see about oh, 8 things I wouldn’t mind owning…

fig. 01 | fig. 02 | fig. 03 | fig. 04 | fig. 05 | fig. o6 | fig. 07

P.S. We’ll be back today with the Jen Huang giveaway details, seriously now, this is a super good one!


jen huang by peter mercado

I will be adding more of Jen’s work because I am a bit obsessed but I loved this photo of Jen, her husband and her beloved Frenchies by Peter Mercado. If Jen wasn’t so lovely you would probably dislike her for being the whole package of goodness-talented, whip smart, successful, gorgeous, witty, naturally thin, but she is indeed lovely, the Audrey Hepburn of artists and I hope you enjoy either this introduction to her or finding out a bit more on this wonderful individual. I can’t believe she’s so articulate just weeks from giving birth, I was a hot mess! I hope Jen inspires you as much as she has me, without further ado…

I had the pleasure of meeting you and taking your workshop and was shocked that someone so young was so laser focused, business savvy and successful, it was very inspiring for me! I’d love to know a little back story…where you are from, where you grew up?

I grew up in New York City, graduated from the Brearley School and then went to Pomona College of the Claremont Colleges in Southern California for undergrad. My parents are Chinese-American and immigrated to the US to work on cancer research for several east coast universities so I grew up around a lot of petri dishes! They were very hands-on when it came to my education so there was always a lot of pressure to do the best that I could. But I feel like I have a dual-coast personality. New York City taught me how to compete and succeed, and California taught me how to relax, and how to appreciate natural beauty and light.

Can you tell us when you knew you wanted to be a photographer?  Did you do anything specific prior to starting your business intern, classes, school?

I remember my father always had medium format cameras and 35mm cameras around the house. We would load film in the closet so as not to expose it to light. I’m sure I took a ton of photos for him but I remember very clearly one of my first favorite photos I took of a Beluga whale in the fourth grade on a disposable camera. It was taped to my parents refrigerator for years until it finally faded and was discarded. Then in middle school is when my love for film really started, I shot on a Canon AE-1 and set up my own little still life area in my home to shoot details of antiques my parents had around – honestly I still do that today! Throughout high school and college photography was a love but never something I considered a career until after I graduated, when I started working full time at an ad agency. I shot a few weddings on the side and I shortly realized photography could be a career – something beyond a hobby, something sustainable and fulfilling. I tell all my workshop attendees it is a big blind leap. Maybe it is different now, but I certainly wasn’t told while I was growing up, that starting your own company as an artist was a good, stable career, but it’s the best decision I ever made. With all the successful entrepreneurs out there and the wonderful photography workshops and books they produce, it really gives new photographers the confidence to go out there and not only create amazing work, but be able to sell it.

When and why did you choose analog over digital?

I’ve been shooting film for most of my life and for most of my wedding career as well. Digital is really convenient (I mean, lets be honest, we take more iphone photos than anything else). But I actually think there is a place for both – I think film is truly beautiful, but it doesn’t do as well in low light (especially color film) and the high ISO of digital cameras yields really gorgeous images in the evening – in the pitch dark! I think it’s the responsibility of the photographer to select the medium that makes the best image, whether it is film or digital. For me, it’s always been film during the day and during natural light, and digital, or black and white film, in the late evenings.

Photography is an expensive endeavor in any aspect-hobby or pro, especially with the type of analog cameras you shoot with, what advice would you give to someone wanting to invest in equipment that is just starting out?

The fact that film is so expensive and so limiting makes it very difficult for most people to shoot it – for a hobbyist who doesn’t make a profit from shooting film, it’s just a black hole of expenses. I try to recommend film to all my friends who ask me about cameras, but basically I’m asking them to buy a camera and lens ($3000) and then shoot a roll ($12/ea) and then process it ($25/ea) and also ship it to/from the lab ($15). So every shot you take is $3.00. That’s buying a latte for every single photo you take, IF every shot you take is a keeper, and when you’re starting out, they’re probably all going to be out of focus. There are some cameras like the Canon AE-1 that you can get for $50 at a yard sale, but you won’t get professional results. Still I think it’s worthwhile to have some film skill, teach children about the history of photography and the chemical processes of creating an image, and to capture some of the most special life moments on film. There’s also a lot of fun cameras out there like the Fuji Instax that take instant film shots which are still expensive, but develop right away and have that film look!

How did you develop your style and when did you ‘know’ this was ‘it’?

Style doesn’t develop over night and I don’t think it ever develops fully – as an artist you want to continuously grow and change – and your style will as well. I definitely have a strong opinion on the types of shots I take and compose. For me, it’s about the subject, but it’s also about the light and composition. Just because a tree is really beautiful and appealing to me, doesn’t mean I will take a photo of it at any time of day – normally I’ll wait until the lighting is just right, and I’m able to create the composition that I like. It’s hard to explain something that is so internal, but the best way to describe it is that you’ll know when it’s right. It’s also important to know when it’s wrong and be your own worst critic. Most of all, keep in mind that your style should be your own – try to challenge yourself to shoot differently from other artists and not let status quo affect what you really love.

Who do you look up to? Any photography or business mentors?

I would say the most helpful people around me are supportive photographer and industry friends, who inspire me, challenge me and keep me sane. I think a collaborative group of artists is one of the most valuable things to have in an industry where you work for yourself and by yourself. It’s a great way to support and mentor each other and grow as a team.

Any advice for photographers who are setting out to photograph their first paying client?

Be confident – even if your legs feel like jelly.

You are a natural and effortless teacher, are you going to continue to do workshops? If so any plans for 2015?

Yes! I love doing my private one-on-one workshops, and also collaborative artist workshops. I have a workshop called “The Artist Holiday” coming up in April which will teach photography, calligraphy and floral design. I’ll also be participating and teaching at other collaborative workshops with magazines such as Magnolia Rouge (Forage & Fern March 2015) and Cottage Hill. I’ll also be speaking at the women’s workshop called Bliss and Bokeh in Charleston. I love being part of these larger workshops because it builds a spirit of community and it also teaches that photography isn’t just about f-stops and lenses – it’s also about becoming a well rounded artist and surrounding yourself with all types of creative talent. My full upcoming workshop list can be found under “workshops” on Jen Huang Blog.

You are about to welcome a baby (a huge congrats!) How do you plan to navigate your new role as a mother and a successful (traveling) photographer?

I think the best advice I’ve received is not to assume any type of plan – and to go with the flow. One of the best things about owning my own business, is that from the beginning I knew that my choice would give me the flexibility of having a family and spending quality time with them. I can create my own schedules, and prioritize what I need to. Also, I timed my birth around low-season (the winter) and will have a couple months with the baby without any responsibilities. Although baby hasn’t arrived yet, I’ve already had a bit of a glimpse of what I might be like just based on the decisions I made while being pregnant. For example, traveling to 3 continents and 6 countries this year and shooting my full season – but doing it safely. I’m planning to shoot another full season next year – no way to tell how how it will go, but I’m optimistic. One tip I have for traveling mothers – bring your own pillows! I brought two pillows with me everywhere I went and it was heavenly.

Thank you Jen for being so articulate, forthright and so darn inspiring! We are all sending you blissful and best wishes for a happy + healthy baby and new year!

Author / Miss Tristan B

Miss Tristan B. is the proprietress of Besotted Brand and one of the writer’s of this delightful blog. She lives in sunny Seattle with her handsome husband, wonderful baby girl and two pups. Her lofty goal here is to make this a creative resource repository and to inspire you to fall truly, madly, deeply in love with your life.

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