Now that I have some time away from the country, albeit a mere few weeks, I think it’s time to answer many questions that have come my way and also discuss what I would have done differently. I had been dreaming about a country move for many moons; I imagined I’d be clipping wild flowers daily, growing my own vegetables, raising chickens and maybe have some goats or a mini cow to tend to. Originally we had discussed Napa, California and I still stand by that it would have been a more successful venture than North Carolina and I shall explain my thought on this for any other urbanite considering taking the plunge into a rural life.
So let me discuss some things that went awry with my adventure. My husband and I had drove out to North Carolina and started looking for a place that we could call home. After seeing nearly 50+ properties we found a beautiful house on 3 acres of land in a very rural area. It was less expensive then our former 1 bedroom apartment in Los Angeles and I was beyond thrilled. I started mentally planning my little farm in my head. My husband had a job lined up before we got there so he went to work and I went to sign the lease. While I was signing the lease the owner of the property dropped the bombshell on me that we could not have any other animals on our property other than our dogs, ‘but my chickens’, I thought and my mini cow and goats? Poof, dream one killed. I swallowed and tried not to cry when the second bombshell came out that our 3 acres of land was zoned as National forest or park or something, we could not plant anything on our 3 acres we could only keep plants on our small deck. I knew that my husband was expecting keys so I couldn’t run out screaming, we were tired, wanted a place to live and so I signed the lease, regretfully. I had signed a lease to live in the middle of nowhere for a year and the most I could do was grow herbs on our small deck something I could have done at our tiny apartment in L.A.
So here’s my advice to urbanites wanting to go country. I had 12 months to ponder this whilst I looked outside at the same expanse of green every.day. for nearly 365 long days. If you want to move to a rural area and you are from the city, consider moving to a place where a major city is accessible by car within an hour or two. The Hudson Valley in New York is ideal as there is a train that runs 14 times a day to take you from your farm to the most bustling city in the world. Napa is a good choice as it’s a little over an hour drive to beautiful San Francisco. My best friend from highschool moved to a small farm in Maryland which is an hour drive to Washington D.C. which she frequents regularly. Parts of Virginia are also easily accessible to D.C. and you can find beautiful homes to have a mini farm. This advice is strictly for those that have grown up in a city environment as you may think you are tired of it, but you will find that an infusion of city life will be welcome and in my case needed.
One of the things my husband and I missed the most was being able to walk to places, even if we drove we weren’t in an area that had a lot of charming places to say have breakfast (I Hop was our only choice for breakfast, no thank you). Not all of North Carolina is like this of course, Asheville which is an adorable little city would be a great choice if you are considering NC, you can find rural and be able to drive into Asheville and have a ton of great places to eat and lot’s of window shopping abound.
Before moving to the country consider urban homesteading. Lot’s of places in the city allow chickens now (you don’t don’t need a rooster to have chickens that lay eggs so forgo the rooster, your neighbors will be very grateful). See if you can join a community garden, they are tough to get into but if you can you will learn a ton. Even on the smallest windowsill, fire escape and balcony you can start an edible garden. You Grow Girl is an addictive site for novice gardeners. There are tons of great books about growing edible gardens in limited spaces these are some to look into-Small Space Container Gardens, The Edible Balcony.
I have more to add, but this is a lot for a Monday so I shall leave you with the above nuggets of experience. Feel free to ask me any specific questions in the comments. I love your emails, but it’s hard to answer the same questions over and over again so I figured I would write these thoughts out for you here and if you had more questions lay them on me.
Have any of you tried urban homesteading? Small container gardening? Raising chickens in the city? I’d love to know!
P.S. I got the cool vintage seed artwork from this fun resource. I think they would make great prints.
Author / Miss Tristan B
Miss Tristan B. is the proprietress of Besotted Brand and the writer of this delightful blog. She recently re-located to sunny Seattle with her handsome husband and two pup.
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